A lady wearing an ultra-modern
dress, sipping wine from her glass is making nonchalant conversations with her
companions seating with her in a classy pub located in a posh area of
Bangalore. The waiter comes with their main courses and serves one by one. Her
dish had not come yet and she comments “Oh, my God, I am treated like a SC/ST,
he will serve me later”. My eyes popped
out literally, it seems we live with funky gadgets in this techno savvy Modern
India but our thoughts are still from Medieval Indian Society.
I work with a private corporate
IT giant of India. Once we were planning in office to go for recruitment of
fresh graduates to some college. One of our HR Managers calls me one day and
asks if I was available that week to go out to that college for technical
interviews. When I said I was busy but could go out the next week, he tells me,
“We need to hurry up, and go this week itself, otherwise, only SC/ST candidates
will remain”. WHAT? I was in total shock.
We stay in an apartment where all
so called educated people stay. Most of us claim of high degrees, so called
double-triple post-graduations. It’s impressive, isn't it? I got acquainted
with a gentleman and his wife, who were equally very impressive with their
higher degrees. So, first day we meet, I politely ask them which part of India
they belong to, he tells me, “We are from so and so part of India and we are BRAHMANS”.
I could not understand whether he wanted me to touch his feet and pray his
praises? Being born into an upper caste, these educated Indians still think
themselves as privileged.
Well, I can’t forget what used to
happen in my premium college, one of the best deemed Universities of India,
where I had done my post-graduation in Engineering (Yes, pun intended). In a
hush-hush manner, some student will point out to another student and say, “Do
you know he/she is from the reserved category”? As if the other person is some
criminal. Please wake up modern India, our batch’s gold medalist was from a
lower caste and he is now an I.E.S officer.
And please, don’t even try to tell me that he got the gold medal because
of his reservation rather than merit.
In the corporate, hi-tech world
of ours, people may not practice discrimination and would show total disgrace
to untouchability still prevailing in some parts of rural India. But still the
talks or mannerism show their total disrespect of humanity. For example, they
will make funny comments when someone is sitting alone in a canteen table away
from a group like “Achhooton ki tarah kyu baithe ho (Why are you sitting like
an untouchable)”? One of my colleagues
used to like a guy in office. It was obvious the guy was also interested in
her. I asked her once if she wanted his number, I could arrange it for her. Her
reply was equally nerve-racking for me, because she replied, “what’s the use;
anyways my parents will kill me if I marry a person from lower caste”. How do
you even talk of a caste less Indian society when you cannot marry your kid to
a lower caste person or when you have become so arrogant with your caste
identity? It is so disgusting that you would rather kill your own child than
marrying him/her to a person of lower caste.
I had the false notion of how
education transforms lives. Yes, it definitely has opened up paths and created
opportunities for many, allowing people to rise above the circumstances of
their birth and background. But still educated mass of India likes to live with
their so-called privileged upper caste titles. As India transforms, one might
expect caste to dissolve and disappear, but that is not happening.
Instead, caste makes its presence felt vibrantly alive when it comes to two
significant societal markers — marriage and politics.
Discrimination based on caste has
been illegal in India for more than six decades. But still it shows its colors
in a hush-hush manner. And, the irony is that we call ourselves a secular and free
country.
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